I'M OUTRAGED/DISAPPOINTED

Not so recently I let someone come stay w/ me....she had nowhere to go,but didn't want to live w/ her son in Az.,so I talked to her and we arranged for her and her grandson to be moved in w/ me here in Texas.Well,I already KNEW the 14 year old she is raising is a juvenile delinquent/a gangster-wanna-be type child....but I think "Hey,I can handle this"....my 2 daughters taught me alot about how to handle certain situations...but NEVER in my wildest dreams did I think THIS child could behave in such a way.He has the worste case of "I don't give a crap",that I've EVER seen.How could I miss the obvious?HE'S RAY'S SON! THAT ALONE should have been the red flag!! But I needed a roomate,and someone to be here at this house while I'm not sometimes b/c of the druggie we had in the neighborhood who has robbed other neighbors work tools etc....Well,he no longer lives here,but all this disrespect at times when u tell him to pick up his belomgings and put th1111111111111111111111111111111111When they moved here,he went to school and was kicked out the FIRST day (suspended for 3 days) THEN the day he went back he was kicked out PERMANENTLY for getting into a teachers purse.Which means he has to be drove to an alternative school on the outside of the next town.21 miles there,21 miles back.If it weren't for having to stay alone,and plus the fact G'ma helps w/ bills some,I would have said"Sorry,I can't do this,long ago".NOW I'm bout ready to move out of my OWN house to get away!! THIS is MY OWN fault.I thought he was TRYING to act somewhat better...well,the other day,I suppose I had my mind somewhere else and left him alone in my car w/ my purse.To keep things simple I hide my cash in my address book thinking,if someday he looks in my billfold,he won't be able to steal my cash.Well,seems he's slicker than I gave him credit.My address book w/ addy's that I can't replace,plus $75 went with it.How can I say "YOU WERE THE ONLY ONE LEFT w/ MY PURSE...SO U DID IT?"One thing is for sure.I NEVER...NOT EVER...take out my address book in a store or elsewhere when I stash money like that.Otherwise I write a check,or keep lump sums in smething other than the obvious billfold.So I'm pissed.That money was intended for something very important.Luckily it was only $75,but it was the $75 I needed for something serious.No matter how nice u try to be to this child,he gives you 100 reasons to never want to give birth to another child,that's for sure.
The thing is....he can be such a sweetheart when he WANTS to.But then it always seems to be some type of manipulation,leading up to asking me and G'ma for something he wants us to do for HIM.It's like...for him to be respectful/nice..you think for a minute...this is the good side of him,THEN the motive comes in shortly thereafter.
What have I got myself into?I thought I had more patience,but I'm seeing more and more,everyday that I don't have as much patience than I thought! UuuGH!