Calm before the Storm!

Ok--I knew things seemed too calm,and I really really felt that something wierd was gona happen,but I had NO idea it was gona go as follows:
I got off work and was headed home and had a police car riding behind me.No biggy,right?Wrong! Tyler has this new computer system that scans license plates and if you have a warrant for unpaid tickets(like the one where I slowed to a NEAR stop at a stop sign,due to grinding brakes)..which got me a ticket for "pausing" instead of a complete stop,plus inspection tag was out.What's crazy,is I was supposed to put my mini-baby-van in the shop the next day to fix those brakes and then I could inspect it.Nevertheless,I wound up in the hopital Back-2-back and didn't make the deadline on paying the tickets.So after work,I got pulled over,and brought to jail and my car got impounded.$749 to get me out after a night in jail,then I was thinking the tow fee for my car would be the norm:about$150! WRONG AGAIN! Weekend+mileage+towing,etc..was $438.95.
Well,besides all THAT drama,I was so appalled by another inmates terribly sad story,here is the link: http://www.kltv.com/global/story.asp?s=9729880
I met a really sweet 37 year old bank teller that had NEVER been to jail nor been in ANY trouble EVER.Church going,non-drinker,non-smoker,etc...with 4 kids she is raising.2 belong to her,2 belong to her X.Who,btw,the day before she went to jail professed his undieing love for her..you know the routine talk.."baby I looove you and can't live without you,etc..etc.."So she was excited that her and her X-husband were wrking things out for the kids sake as well.At 6 a.m.,she said she swung by the house and used her key,walked in and seen high scool kids sleeping all over the living room.Went to the bedroom where she found her man naked in the bed with a naked young girl! She politely woke him up so that he could see her and basically make him aware that she KNEW he was a cheater.She calmly walked out,texted him---no answer back,so 3 hours later she went back over there and EVERYONE had split.So she snapped.She took papertowels and decided to burn the sheets.She changed her mind when she started the bed on fire and threw the comfortor on the bed and beat it some to try and put it out and left.Afterwards the police knocked on her door and arrested her for Arson of a home.All the while she was thinking it JUST burnt maybe the bed or the floor a bit in the bedroom.Wrong.It had burnt the house to the ground.Nobody was hurt,but her bond was a whopping$75,000...so her preacher is trying to help her either come up w/ the 10% to make her bond,which is&7,500!UuGH!.
I spent alot of time talking to this really sweet 37 year olf mother of 3 kiddo's,that unlike myself,she had NEVER once been into ANY trouble.But her X-instead of going to Dallas that morning,he was caught at home bucknaked w/ a really YOUNG looking girl.In MY opinion,she had more control than "I" would have had! No-telling-what!I would have done,knowing ME!But I wouldn't have just walked away and went and texted him,Of course he ignored her text and so she went back over there 3 hours later..lit some papertowels to burn the sheets,changed her mind and tried to snuff out the fire on the bed w/ a comfortor.She left thinking the small fire was out.That is,until the police came to her house and arrested her for arson.In jail she told me she only THINKS that she prolly burnt maybe JUST some of the bed and possibly the floor some..MY QUESTION IS this:
What would YOU do if you walked in and seen the person that had just promised you his love for eternity and literally hours later,you walk in and see him asleep BUCK-NAKED with a school age child?
I would prolly wind up on that series on on TV called "Snapped"!!Man-O-Man! I busted my X cheating,but only by word-of-mouth,and he almost got casterated!! Can u imagine if I caught him like THAT!! I wouldn't be here blogging,prolly.I'd imagine I'd be doing some more time for a crime I couldn't take back!Now that I think about it...I suppose I better stay single...cuz that's one thing I can't deal with is a cheating bastard!(Yea,I got issues w/ that kinda shit).I suppose that's why everytime a man's zipper opens his brains fall out!lol.(sorry to all the "good" guys that don't cheat,cuz I KNOW there are some...but few & far between)...YEA! I said that.It is what it is!!
Anyways...back to what this post was about..lol...I'm happy to say the tickets are taken care of,but for pete's freakin sake,I COULD have went the cheaper route,ya know.But I simply chose to ignore it,so I suppose I better go handle-up on that other ticket out there before it gets this far!!Ohhh the worste thing about it all is when the cop comes back to the car,and says the thing I HATE hearing the most in this WHOLE world..."Ma'am,can you step out of the car please"??That HAS to be the worste thing someone in uniform can say to me!!! No wonder I have been having so many jail/prison nightmares lately! I haven't been thinking about those tickets much,but I'm guessing my subconscience was jacking w/ me in my dreams.