MY FRIENDS' INSIGHT!

MY FRIENDS' INSIGHT

I know he would want to strangle me for posting his opinion he sent me in a personal e-mail to me.....but I just feel the need! lol Anyways...he'd have to catch a flight from New York to Texas to strangle me,so I doubt I'll be choked this week.ha haThis guy is so smart....most people that I know are either booksmart or streetsmart,and my friend has BOTH.....awesome combination! lol

But here's some of what he says about my issues: (QUOTE)ah, the softer side ... i can't say that i find it unusual that women are attracted to other women. hell ... i find it difficult to walk straight around beautiful women so ... sure ... i know the feeling ;)now ... the first thing that occured to me is ... what would be the result of any such action (pun intended) in texas? ... ya know the 'other' people round there? i mean, u can walk down st. marks place in the village here and do ... well ... just about anything ... no one bats an eye. that doesn't mean that u can do such anywhere else w/o problem.your not talkin about anything other than fantasy (a great place - i'm a frequent visitor - see u there a few times;) ... so that's all at this point ... u can close u'r eyes and let u'r fingers do the walking - a particular fav of mine is watching that ... always admired a woman who wasn't 'ashamed' of her body and what make it tic - plus it's SOOOoooo educational ;) heheback on topic - i don't think u'r odd or wrong or unusual ... u see the sides of both that are 'good' ... they both (probably) have the bad sides too. good is better n' bad ;) ... so u'r sick of the current and thinking of the new. it's fearful i'd bet but dang (using u'r vernacular here) exciting too! ;) u'r HOT ... no Q there. she's HOT (i take u'r word for it) ... hot + hot is great but can also be trouble in it's own way.my advice is ... try it but don't MOVE back there or burn bridges until u know. around here the heat lasts for 4 months ... then it can get colder ;) ... ensure u'r at that point before u start talkin/thinkin commit here. it's a tuff road anywhere but probably easier for two women ... even in Texas.I'm not one to preach ... but i'm jealous of her already ;) hahaha ... and now i can't stop thinkin about u'r breasts ... see?? one track mind, but it's a LOVELY track! hehe... bottom line = u'r not crazy. just human. fantasy is free. the price goes up when the touchin starts. no matter male/female. (UNQUOTE)

He pretty much sums it up,I think.I value his opinion,big time.We met online a couple of years ago and he's like a computer genius.I went to the Tech Tv message board(IT'S G-4 TV now...bummer)...when I first purchased my own computer,I had a million and one questions,and him and a few others' took up alot of their time,energy,and PATIENCE in helping walk me through all kinds of computer issues.Then him and I just began e-mailing each other alot...and the rest is history.He's adoreable,in so many ways.Not just physically...but maybe it's due to having a hairdressers' background,but the first thing I catch myself doing,is looking at how a person takes care of their hair.On the head,on the face,and other hairy places,of course.I love the bald-headed look,and my N.Y. bud keeps his hair that way.But of course I admired him long before I ever seen a picture of his CUTE self!!He has a unique way of weighing out all your options.I used to laugh at my sister,when she came to live with me for a few months, because she would stay online on my daughters' computer for hours on end talking to strangers',and taking everyone SO serious! She gave out my home number to a few people,and that enraged me(we had a HUGE fight over that,BTW).She said she was "In Love" with this one guy in Arizona,and I just found that so funny,cuz she never even MET him in person! But now,after I've spent some time getting to know someone (like my bud in N.Y.)...I can see how a person can get caught up emotionally with someone.But LOVE??? No way....I still can't grasp that part of it.It reminds me too much of the women in prison falling in love strictly through the U.S. mail!?? I just can't fathom that.Anyways....to each his own,I suppose.......Yup....to each HIS or HER own.

Anyways....I really like his views on this issue that I've been struggling with.I'm gona try and talk him into blogging,but I bet that would probably be like pulling teethe.lol