Yes,I have had alot of %$#@ going on in my life,and what truly sucks is: all the blogger friends I THOUGHT I had....well,you never even left a single thought on the issue,like you even give a f****k.When this has happened to others,I felt compelled to go and mention to them on their site that I will be thinking of them,and will always be here when or if you come back to us.Nope--I don't need your sympathy,I just want to get 2 things off my damn chest,because I truly began blogging many years ago to use this as a diary,like the old small book type diaries w/ a lil key..so I never expected a response to anything I EVER blog about.But after quite some time,I realized I had made some really cool friends.But then some ppl I THOUGHT were true friends,were really just another stupid link on my faves list.
#1.To the people that left a sincere thought:Thanks for your care and concern.Really.You KNOW who your friends are when you need them,it meant the world to know that the people that I've grown to care about,as odd as non-bloggers think it is...some of us are actually at work,or at the grocery wondering...I hope so-in-so is okay,I can't wait to get online and check on him/her,or you wind up feeling guilty for needing more time to check on your blog friends.Those friends that really do understand that you can't exchange blog messages on a daily basis,but true blog-buds try and get to one another as often as possible.....and
#2.Kiss my a%% to the people that always seemed to put up that stupid front...but burned off when my life was going through the bullshit.
OK--so call me bitchy,whiney,on my pity-pot...YUP,I "AM" all those things and THEN SOME..more things I didn't mention...but I felt the fucking need to get that off my chest!!!
AND number 2 DEFINATELY applies to those people that I spent day after day leaving messages on their same post,time after time,with me asking "are you ok"? "I'm concerned about cha'"!etc...etc...on the same post that remained unchanged for days or months on end.Wondring to myself: Please don't be another Denny Shane.Who,btw,is very well known for his daily blog,and wound up having a devastating stroke,and that just broke my heart to pieces.So I wonder who else will have bad health and not be able to reply..Yet,I "DO" UNDERSTAND not being able to get back online for a number of reasons.But you know who I'm talking about.You KNOW who you are!
NOW!! I feel much better,cuz I've been dieing to say that!!!
And finally... SPECIAL THANKS TO THESE PPL------>Bill,Letti,Nachtawache,Tweetey 30, and Lindy...and of course Michael, Patti and definately Walker.Sure,I may have missed a few,but just cuz I SDIDNT SINGLE YOU OUT DOESN'T MEAN JACK,CUZ U KNOW WHO YOU ARE.
Those of you who are offended...ask yourself why!
and if anyone has anything smart to say...I'm grown,
BRING IT.
Saturday, August 29, 2009
MY OPINION...LIKE IT OR LUMP IT!!
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So sweetie after all that would you like me to take you out for dinner and a movie :)
Wow, good for you. I hope you feel better for that Tammi. Not sure whether I'm an offender or not. If I am, I apologise. If not, no offence taken.
Hope all is a little better with you now.
:( I hope things get better real soon. I'm up to my eyeballs with the little one. Him and daddy had a cough and cold this week and I'm super thankful I didnt' get it ( not yet? ). He's just growing up so fast before our eyes. I need to get my sh** together and post pictures from this month. LOL. Major hugs from Jaxon and me :)You go girl!
BILL--
Sounds great.Sure. ;-} Can you believe all the crazy stuff going on around here? Since the sale,my house is back to normal....clean and peaceful! Whew! I thought that was gona be easy and fun,but...well,it wasn't either!HA
PUSS N BOOTS--
Just because you didn't comment on my "having to leave" post,doesn't mean YOU,lovebug.Your a sweetheart.They know who I am referring to.
LETTI--
Girl,you have youe hands full lil missy,but one things for sure....YOU have been my #1 bestest BB (blog-bud) since the stoneage!lol
You've been around when I couldn't imagine you being able to find the time to push the ON button on the computer.
Hope lil Jaxon and David feel better!Makes me feel so bad when A'million gets sick and I feel so helpless when I can't just snap my fingers and make him all better. And I'll be checking like crazy for more pictures!Bet on that.lol
Love ya girl.
You are most welcome Tammi I try to understand and I am here when you need some one. I cant post every day like i was either when I first started and I have lost some great pals over the two years I have been blogging. some just quit and a few quit because life was getting in the way. But they left blog messages..
What are you doing say Friday or Sat? Want to get together then? Call me or shoot me an e-mail sweetie and let me know since I don't really know your schedule of events LOL.
Tammi - it has been ages since I've checked blogs or changed mine at all, so I missed a lot of the things you have gone through.
I'm not even sure of everything that's going on, but I'm sorry you are having a hard time. I'll go back and read things later.
My life has been very busy and I've had very little time to do 'fun' things on the computer. No excuse, you're right, but it's the truth.
I know I was one who would leave positive comments and then hasn't. If your post was somewhat directed at including me, please accept my heartfelt apology - it was not my intent to leave and upset anyone.
Having said that, I wish you the best and I will try to catch up.
I have a busy weekend, including some volunteer stuff with AA on the phones.
I hope you have a good weekend and I will do my best to check in again soon.
Hey Tam, does this mean you're back? I've checked on both blogs & just recently have you updated either one. I'm certainly glad to know you're ok. Even if a little miffed! (which nobody can blame you for) You're always a staunch supporter & a BB nobody wants to lose. Hope things are getting better for you. Don't make me pull out the email addy!
xoxo
Come on up for some BBQ ribs and Brats on Sunday. I will take a look and see if I can fix your car or see what may be wrong with it if you want. Let's get together mid-day up here or late Sunday in Tyler. Let's just spend sometime together.
TWEETEY30--
Your so right lovebug....at least the ppl that stop blogging leave a reason.But hey...thanks for understaning.
EILEEN--
Thanks for also understanding,hun....No your not in my piss-off category...lol
Not that you'll lose lots of sleep if u were.....but I had so much going on,I was moreless cracking.
OK--Not mentioning any names,cuz that would prolly seem as if I'm "hating" on someone...but I know someone who posted that she could no longer blog...and all the ppl that frequent my blog ran to her rescue and it was like as if she were gona die(I hate putting it like that)UUUGH! But she had so many tears and boo-hoo's over her stopping blogging.And she never even gave a reason.
Nope-I didnt expect that knee-jerk reaction,but all those ppl are mostly on my faves list who I frequented almost daily sometimes. They were the 1st to jump her bandwagon.
BILL---you know I adre you...but we talk on the phone,hun.You live an hour away and so I'm just curious,funny man,why do u ask me out on my blog...hahahaha
Your still awesome though,ya know!
I adore you too sugar and I want everyone to know that too so it doesn't matter if it's on your blog in an e-mail or on the phone just want to make sure you hear from me LOL
Oh boy I can't read the bottom part but I sense you are not happy and please know even though I don't blog anymore (except sporadically) you are ever in my thoughts Tammi. You've always been so sweet and upbeat and just plain REAL.
Mentioning Denny made me sad :( I still think of him all the time and am thankful that Michael Manning keeps me updated when there is anything to tell.
Hope you are feeling better from all the pressure you seemed to be under. I am slowly making my way to cleaning the rest of my house. I just need to finish sweeping and mopping and I am done with the inside.. LOL..Then we have a little bit of painting to do on the outside yet.. come by and check it out when you get a minute.. Its a beautiful color.
Holy hell, I take a break and I come back and Tammi has gone wrangler and smacking heffers and all the bull aside.
Cool, I like it.
For as long as i have known you you speak you mind and have always been there for people.
If you're pissed then you have reason to be.
And I for one am never pissing you off.
Or lending you my car but i will lend you my brother's new Nissan 350z if you like.
Now i got to go catch up
So Okay Tammipoo, where are you?
Tammipoo?! Tammipoo....where are you...hmmmmmm.......maybe with Scooby :P
I love it when I live to far to be slapped upside the head.
Tammipoo whooo whooo whooo
Leave it to Walker to make me laugh even with his comments! I've been neglecting blogs quite a bit since our grandson was born and our daughter dragged me onto facebook :)
I do check every so often and last time I did, all was peaceful like and quiet, this sure woke me up, LOL!
I'm due for an update myself. Lots happening all the time.
Hope you're well!
Tammi: Stick with the positive people and Control/Alt/Delete those who are negative. My Pastor has a word I love called "Supportiveness" and your note reminded me that we all need that. lol and (((HUGS)))!
Michael
You guys are a mess...meaning gals too,that is....
Tammipooo??? What the...?lol
Ok-so I yea,I basically threw myself in the floor kicking and screaming like a 2 year old throwing a tantrum...but I feel better knowing that I'm not just some nameless,faceless,nobody that stalks your blogs as much as possible cuz I have more care and concern for some of you turds than I do some of the people I work and live around.Imagine that.
I guess my Dad is right.I suppose I "DO" say whatever I'm thinking,even when I ought to shut up.lolHe says out of his 3 kids,I sure speak my mind even when it's inappropriate(sp).
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