&I just LOVE it when I type a complete post and then lose it.Uugh!I am just sitting here waiting on a friend of mine that has a truck,so that we can go pick up my daughter who lives in Dallas,and move her and her things back here.She's barely seven months pregnant now,and was just released from the hospital b/c she was trying to have the baby waaay too soon,so she had to stay almost 2 weeks in the hospital on Magnesium to stop the contractions and dialating.She is still dialated to a 4,and can very easily go back into labor,but since boy's don't develope lungs as soon as girls',every day he stays in the womb is a better chance of him being fully developed.The babies father is damn lucky he's not locked up for beating the crap out of my daughter...as a matter-of-fact he might be safer behind bars if I get ahold of him! I'm pissed! How can ANYONE beat on a pregnant person?I hate that they aren't working out,cuz every child should have their birth mother and father together,of course....but not in those circumstances.He's just abusive and vile.OK.The good news is....I can get to the hospital alot quicker w/ her being here in town instead of Dallas.Anyways...I'm glad she's gona be here and safe.....I'm just thrilled to be a "Mee-Mee". :-} Even though my daughter is so young,she has had to grow up fast because of my indescretions,I suppose.So I'm positive she'll be a great mom.All of a sudden I'm feeling sorta "old".Thanks alot dear children for making me age quicker than I expected.LOL
EDIT: Well...same news,different day! Yesterday my moving help (friend w/ truck)had to wait until today,which was fine w/ my daughter because her insurance card was supposed to be in the mail and didn't come,so it should be there today.She needs that to show her new physician in Tyler.It's taken her forever to get this insurance,so that one piece of mail is pretty important.So we'll be leaving in a little while,and if it's not in the mail today...tough.We'll just have to go back for it.Going through a change of address is out of the question too,because that would mean going through another bunch of rig-a-ma-rore,and there is no time for that....so(knock on wood) it will be there today.It's raining in Dallas and here,but we are still moving her...even if we have to use plastic to cover her things.Like my mother told me when I got out...."to hell with the material things....those can be replaced....get out while you still can"!!I know how she feels right about now.Although I wasn't pregnant...the disappointment and stress over a breakup is really tough,and the change is REAL hard,that's for sure...but time really does heal the wounds.
4 comments:
Aww Tammi i'm wishing the best for your daughter. I can't like abusive persons. At.All.
I know what you mean Patti Cake,
I had an abusive man before,and I sorta feel like I'm responsible for her choices in life,because of my decisions that I made.Learned behaviors maybe??
Your daughter will be better off with you rather than that asshole she was with.
No one should have to live with abusive partner and what’s worse is she is pregnant with HIS kid.
Don’t lock him up just toss him in pool filed with alligators.
Your mother is right things can be replaced in time, I know I’ve done it four times.
Not let me tell you something.
Good people go to jail for doing stupid things if the knew it at the time or not, taking risks is part of life.
The dues are paid so stop kicking yourself for the past.
You more than make up for it for being there now when you are most needed and if anyone says to you different send them to me and I’ll read to them from both books, the bible that will be smacking them from the right and the book of Rights from the left.
Have a nice day
You have such a good "thinker",and such a really big heart.
Big hugs,Walker!
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