IN A PINCH

I have to take my little 4 year old nephew home,but it just kills me.My sister STILL lives w/ my mother,and STILL hasn't got the house she keeps saying she's getting.She wants to party ALL the time,leaving her 3 kids w/ my mother who just got out of the hospital from having heart surgery.So I've been keeping K.,but I have to work,so he's mostly been staying w/ the roomate who doesn't work.She's older and loves him to pieces,and says she doesn't mind at all...but I feel so bad having to work so many hours and not be here for K.If it were up to me,I would NEVER make him go back.He doesn't even want to go back,matter-of-fact.It's pretty sad if you ask me.I mean,she's my sister and all(same mother-different fathers) but I just want to shake the hell out of her sometimes.He keps saying "Aunt Tammi,can I spend just ONE more night"?? and it's running into weeks now,and it's gona kill me to have to take him back.She's doing ALL kinds of things a child shouldn't have to tolerate,not to mention the way she yells and ignores him.He's such a sweetheart,and isn't one bit of trouble.But to hear HER tell it,he's a monster.SHE'S THE MONSTER IF U ASK ME!